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Michael Smith was a friend and source of laughter, smiling, and just plain good times. We all have plenty of stories and memories of our time with him that would bring a smile to everyone’s face.
Take a few moments and share a story, a memory, or simply convey the impact God had in your life because of Michael. It would be a blessing to all of us—and especially to Michael’s family and friends.
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I don’t think that one person that really knew Michael could post just one memory. My 7 years at NCH were years I would NEVER erase. Meeting Michael meant meeting JESUS. He was the first person I ever met that REALLY knew what loving Jesus meant. Michael’s walked it, talked it and wore his nice tennis shoes doing it. (He also ranks number one for broken bones for any minister I know!) He was a mentor and friend. I miss those days of Dan’s clan in the Suburban. I am so thankful for all the years Michael poured himself into me…. he was just pouring Jesus. Because of Michael, I am doing what I am doing….. ministry. I love you Michael! Can’t wait to see you again.
Comment by Cindy Fretwell McLain on October 23, 2010 at 6:46 pm
as i posted on the homegoing page! i spent time with mike summer of 2009 and after sharing my story with him and shedded tears! i had amazing strength and inspiration from him! as i look at our picture in my room i will never forget his love and inspiration the memories will never fade! my prayers are flying up for his family! in loving memory! may the lord be with those who all will miss him! we love you mike! geaux tigers!
Comment by lindsay myrick on October 23, 2010 at 6:53 pm
Michael was my Jr. High youth pastor in Springdale. He loved having fun with us, giving high-fives and calling dollars “bones.” My favorite time with Michael was one winter evening after youth group. Michael and the interns organized a game of capture the flag using painball rules with snowballs. I literally clotheslined myself and Michael laughed so hard that I ended up creaming him in the face with a snowball, which made us laugh even harder. I loved him like a brother and Kim like a sister. See you on the other side, my friend. Rest in Power.
Comment by Christina Moore on October 23, 2010 at 7:17 pm
Michael was a great mentor to both me and Chris. In fact, he performed our wedding ceremony, but not before I had to confiscate his “Bubba” teeth during the pre-wedding photos. Michael believed in us when few others did. We will miss him.
Comment by Melissa Swain on October 23, 2010 at 8:03 pm
Where to begin with all the tales I could tell on you Michael! I promise to keep any that you would not want me to tell in my memories and not write them down! ha.ha.ha.
I remember Super Summer at LC. You were such the thoughtful guy that you walked me and several other girl campers across the campus only to be stopped by Camp “Police” (or someone in charge). They thought you were hitting on us! Yeah right! You were sure to set them straight that YOU were the youth minister…and all of 17 years old! I always thought it was funny you were not old enough to rent a vehicle for our trips but mature enough to be in charge!
There was our trip with the tire blowing out on the Gray Hound Bus and you almost flying through the aisle because you were not sitting down.
Lock-Ins were such fun with AIR Band & old Saturday Night Live jokes (clean of course!) … the van parked down by the river!
Sr Trip to Florida (one of our MANY trips to FL) was such fun! Deep Sea Fishing anyone? ha.ha.ha.
You made sure our youth group ALWAYS sat on the front row! Of course that’s where all the good stuff happens anyway!
You were the energizer bunny and I can’t even remember a time in which you slacked off in God. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you! You set the bar high. You will forever be MISSED and LOVED. But I can sleep at night knowing I will see you again….ONE DAY!
Comment by Wendy Coleman on October 23, 2010 at 8:04 pm
Everytime I was around Michael he always had a smile on his face. He was a person who when you saw him you saw Jesus shining through him. What a true example of a Godly man!!! Many prayers to his family and all his friends who mourn his loss. May we continue Michael”s legacy and let Jesus shine through us so that others may know His love. May we share Jesus with everyone we come in contact with. Thats what Michael would want us to do. Michael my friend we will meet one day again and kneel at Jesus feet together.
Comment by randi lewis on October 23, 2010 at 8:35 pm
Thank you for sharing the video clip from Kamp Kool 2005 with Peyton. Brought back such great memories. Michael was in incredible leader for the kids and we had such a great time. The senior trip to New Orleans was a trip I will never forget. Thanks for the memories Michael. I look foward to seeing you again one day. Praying for Kim and Hanna as well as the rest of his family and friends.
Comment by Marci on October 23, 2010 at 8:42 pm
As long as I have knew Michael, he lived out his call to serve Jesus. I remember how funny he was, those crazy skits, and the fun we had together. I am praying for Mrs. Betty and Mr. Wayne, Kim and Hannah that God’s peace would be unexplainable and everything they need. I know the Father will meet you, Michael, saying, “Well done, good and faithful servant.”
Comment by Amy Keaton Rypkema on October 23, 2010 at 9:17 pm
Michael was one of the most awesome people I have ever known. I have memories that go back all the way to junior high that are full of laughter. Most importantly, Michael showed Jesus and his love for people in everything he did. I feel very blessed to call him my friend. My prayers and love go out to the family. I know that Michael would not want us to be sad, but it sure is hard not to cry. I also believe that Michael is having a blast with Jesus and those who have gone on before him. I know that I will see him again so I end with Goodbye for a little while my friend.
Comment by Holley Carter on October 23, 2010 at 9:36 pm
Michael was the real deal – he was authentic and 2nd only to His love for Christ was his love for his beautiful family. Even in the “low moments” his love and faith in God was evident. I have recalled so many funny memories of Michael from his time with us in Houston – but at this moment all I can do is sit back and take stock in how God used this very young man to impact so many. Not only am I glad that my husband and I were able to serve along side him, but I’m glad our young son remembers him because Michael was one of the first Church leaders Grady ever knew and I can tell that even for such a little guy, Michael’s love and influence were evident. Thank you brother for being such a true man after God’s heart. We love you and look forward to seeing you again some day.
Comment by Ginger Norris on October 23, 2010 at 9:37 pm
i remember the time he cooked buffalo wings on stage to illustrate a point, afterwards he shared with me his louisiana recipe for them.
i also remember when he hooked me [and my then girlfriend, now wife] up to go to the hillsong united concert at lakewood, it was a funny experience cause eventho we had tickets we almost didnt end up with seats.
i liked the fact that he enjoyed when i helped out the youth worship (at bleyl and at mflc) and he would make it a point to let me know – zelvis and i used to have fun worshipping together for those services.
you’re gonna be missed buddy.
Comment by Victor Guadalupe on October 23, 2010 at 10:06 pm
I remember entering NCH youth group as a 6th grader going into 7th and meeting our new youth pastor, an 18 year old young man with this infectious humor, rabid love of basketball, and earnest love of the Scriptures. He taught me what a quiet time was, what community in the local body was, that Christ was not only Savior but LORD of our lives and comforted me and countless others through the trials of youth. If it were not for Michael showing me that “to live is Christ” I doubt I would be where I am today. His teachings went with me into adulthood even when I ran from God, the foundations Michael and my parents put into my life were part of the “cords of loving kindness” my Savior used to draw me back to Him. I do not think I would be working amongst an unreached people group on the other side of the world today if it were not for what Michael sowed into my life as a teenager.
The day Michael told us he was leaving NCH to go to another church I can remember weeping with my college classmates as we stood in front of our church and sang “Alleluia” But the lessons he taught us and the example he set carried on after his physical presence was gone. Today so many from his first youth group are now pastors, ministers, missionaries or serving as godly men and women in their local church body. We’re mothers and fathers, educators and doctors, military and those who walk to the beat of a different drummer…whatever role God has called us to, Michael had a large part in investing time, prayer and teaching into our lives to grow us into women and men of God. There is no price tag or words that can cap what he did and will continue to do through his students and those he ministered to at countless camps, retreats and conferences.
Thank-you Michael for loving us so, thank-you Kim and Hannah for sharing him with us. Thank-you God for not only sending a Savior to save us, but a man of God to lead us and teach us that to live is Christ and to die is gain.
Comment by Sharon G. on October 24, 2010 at 2:23 am
On my senior trip in 1994 Michael and I camped out on the beach one night in Panama City. He said something to me that night that will stay with me forever. If your relationship with Jesus is right, everything else will take care of itself.
Now I am remembering the song Michael asked me to sing at his ordination service.
“We have come so far, you have been so good.
When I trace the roads that we have traveled,
I got to tell you Lord.
I look at were WE are and see where I could have been.
No need to say again you have been so good.
Who would have thought the we would come so far.”
Michael, I love and miss you. But I’ll see you again soon.
Comment by Brent Swanner on October 24, 2010 at 7:39 am
I grew up with Michael. We were involved in the same, small but very dynamic, youth group at Cedar Crest Baptist Church in West Monroe, Louisiana. I remember so much about him from church camp, spending time with his whole family (his Mom Betty was my mom’s best friend), and hearing about his great work in ministry as the years went on. He was always so much fun and so quick to smile and make people laugh. I’m so overjoyed to hear these great memories and comments about his life – the greatest testement to how special he was. His beauty and light will carry on through all the hearts he touched. Blessings, Sarah Jane
Comment by Sarah Jane Nelson on October 24, 2010 at 8:43 am
We just heard overseas about Michael’s passing away. Really shocked, but also confident that his was a life spent well. Praise God for Michael’s faithfulness and commitment to walk with Christ each day. We’ll be praying for you Kim and Hannah. Our prayer also is that this week folks in WM will be reminded of how short our lives are. Oh that we would all spend our days wisely as this man of God has done.
In Christ,
Eddie Robison and family
Comment by Eddie Robison on October 24, 2010 at 1:19 pm
When Michael was at “The Met” in Houston, at the time I was just a regular middle school kid. Unknowing, lookinf for purpose, and direction and very naive. I wasn’t familar with God or the Lord; even though I had been in church my whole life pretty much. Michael was the man who always greeted me with warmness, love, compassion, and unrelenting care for me. He made me feel special and always had told or even better said -shared what God had in store for me as a young student. He always let me know I could be a great leader and always made sure that I was held accountable as a good christian and boy of the lord and family. Also, my family had loved the Smiths. And that only solidified my bond with Michael, every Sunday, and Wednesday I’d be at church eager for the word. And summer camps and Disciple Now weekends alike were times to expand my love for God, still now as keen or aware of how God really played the main role in my life. As I had gotten in to high school my drive to share the word and let others know was still strong, I heard of Michael leaving the Met, I was of course saddened but glad he could do what he was called to. And I had strayed from my path throughout high school and made the choices that were of the world, and yet Mike would guide me, either through a call, text, facebook, whatever it had to be. And I still struggled and questioned but now as a soon to be soldier I have absorbed so much from this man that I could never begin to pay him back, yet thank him enough to suffice the amount of goodness he has done in shaping me as a servant for the lord. His passing only now has made me fully understant that any day is God’s day-The Lord does not believe in age and time of eath, it is his calling for your life. And Michael along with the Smith’s; if you read this just know this… I am only ONE of MANY MANY students and people Michael loved in this fashion. It was his love for God and us that had impacted us all and made me love myself and my faith. He was my saving grace. And that is a memory that I have yet to ever forget, of course never will.
God Bless you Michael and I hope to even be half the man as you were-did so much good and can only have the tears of happiness knowing that you were and still are a leader for God. I love him so much and as time passes and I serve my country, because of Mike I can rely on God and I understand now how important it is to my will to live.
Comment by Cory Schwandt on October 24, 2010 at 3:28 pm
Fifteen years ago, I first met Michael when I was 20 and starting out in student ministry. He was in West Monroe and I was in Ruston, and his reputation as a leader was huge. I knew I needed to meet him and try to learn some insight from him. I was unsure if he would meet with me, but he graciously did. He spent an entire morning with me answering questions, giving me things to read, and sharing his heart. To say that Michael influenced me would be an under-statement. I walked away seeing a blend of passion for Jesus, love for people, and aggressive and strategic ministry that marked me.
I am so glad God let me meet Michael. For the following years, Michael continued to be an encouragement to me. We partnered together on student ministry events at each church I served in student ministry. I wanted to be a part of anything he was doing. I had him speak to my students at each church because I wanted his influence to rub off on the students I was responsible for.
I always looked up to Michael and have never been ashamed to admit that. He was a man of God worth following.
I was dating my wife when we first met, and Kim was such a great example for Kaye. I deeply admire both Michael and Kim.
Comment by Eric Geiger on October 24, 2010 at 6:10 pm
“Whenever death may surprise us, let it be welcome if our battle cry has reached even one receptive ear and another hand reaches out to take up our arms.”
Michael Smith’s battle cry for God reached the ears of so many people &touched the lives of so many more- He would be so pumped that so many have used this unbeliveable loss to “take up the arms” of where he left off in his ministry. We will all miss him so much but his legacy for GOD will absolutely last till the end… to his family and friends left to fight “I love ya like my dog!” = ]
Comment by Jess Clayton on October 24, 2010 at 7:09 pm
I still remember Michael calling me one day and asking me if I had an acoustic guitar. 11 years later, I am one semester away from graduating from seminary, after having finished a music degree from Bible college.
Kim, your husband made a phone call that changed my life. I never knew I could stand in front of people and lead worship. Now, I am faithfully following His call to serve the Body of Christ!
Thank you for your service to the Lord!
We are praying the Lord’s comfort to you.
God Bless,
Chuck
ps. Whitesburg still uses the drum shield we made the day after I had my wisdom teeth cut out.
Comment by Chuck Mielke on October 24, 2010 at 7:54 pm
Michael please say ‘hello’ to Emilie’s dad(Arturo) for us! Kim(&Hannah) although you might now remember me, but Emilie has loved Michael and both of you so much! I couldn’t hear enough about all of your family. Please know that because of his passion and love for Christ, my Emilie has given her life for Christ and has gone overseas to serve HIM. I will never forget Michael and his big heart.You will be forever in our hearts. We love you and will miss you dearly. Thank you Kim for sharing him with us. You are in our thoughts and prayer! Diana(Emilie Varela’s mom)
Comment by Diana Avalos on October 24, 2010 at 8:19 pm
Michael came to New Chapel Hill as our Youth Minister while still a teenager himself. He not only had a passion for God’s Word and sharing God’s message with each young person in the Youth Group, he had a great passion for equipping the Teachers that would be working with him. I was privileged to be one of those teachers. Each teacher was asked to read the Book of James to fully understand the responsibilities of a teacher. Michael also expected each of us to be a part of the youth group – whether is was Sunday morning, Sunday night, Wednesday night, Youth Camp, D-Now Weekends, Lock-Ins, whatever – if you worked with youth – you went everywhere with the youth.
Michael also taught me the importance of having a daily quiet time and to journal your walk with God. I am still following those principles today and often think of Michael when I’m taking notes during sermons, conferences, wherever God’s Word is taught. Thanks Michael – you will always hold a special place in my heart – I love you like you were my son.
Comment by Cookie Collie on October 24, 2010 at 9:09 pm
When I think of Michael, so many memories come to mind. We were neighbors through much of growing up and went to Cedar Crest together as well. Our families spent a lot of time together and we were at each others houses often. There were alot of important wiffle ball games played in my back yard with Michael, me, Kelli, Scott, David, and Mark. I remember Ms. Betty making her big pot of Velvetta mac and cheese and everyone coming over to eat it. I remember Michael sitting in my room and watching him visibly upset when our beloved youth pastor, WES moved, and Michael not realizing at the time that this was God’s way of putting him in a leadership role for our youth group and the start of his ministry. Michael, you have impacted so many people and it’s so amazing to see! I pray for Kim and Hannah. Although I did not know them, the road ahead will be difficult. I pray that the Lord wraps his big arms around you and never lets go! Ms. Betty, Mr. Wayne, and Mark, I am so sorry for your loss. I know your hearts are breaking and I pray for a peace that passes all understanding. I love you, Kristi Dickerson O’Dell
Comment by Kristi O'Dell on October 24, 2010 at 9:19 pm
The name Michael Smith brings a smile to my face. He was always full of energy and love. He is part of the reason I am who I am today. I will always want to make him proud. I hope I can impact the world like he did.
I love you Smith family! You will always be dear to me.
Comment by Raine Anderson on October 24, 2010 at 9:21 pm
Michael Smith, our brother in Christ, has been a great blessing in the life of my family and my church. He as passionate about his GOD and loved everyone else to the best of his ability and in his words, “Dude, I love you like my dog!” No greater love have so many kids been blessed with as they have followed him as he followed CHRIST! Some are in ministry themselves now, some have families of their own, others are finishing graduate school, others have built careers… others are still running from GOD but wherever they are… they have heard the TRUTH under Michael’s teaching and they know where to find the answers when they are ready to hear them. Many other adults found their own calling to ministry under Michael’s encouragement and his excitement was contagious! Our brother’s faith has been made sight and he is worshiping before the Throne even now. We grieve, but not without hope and we continue to lift up Kim and Hannah and the rest of Michael’s family before that same LORD and KING! We praise HIS Holy NAME and thank HIM for Michael’s life! Lots of love, Mark & Liz Clayton
Comment by Mark & Liz Clayton on October 24, 2010 at 9:33 pm
Michael Smith was more than a youth minister, more than a friend, more than a Christian, more than a mere mortal man. He was a God-sized man! And there are not many of those. They are few & far between. Michael was like a son, was a son who came into our lives & impacted our lives as only a God-sized man can. He was 18 & full of life & the spirit of youth & the Spirit of God. It was the Spring of 1989. And our lives would NEVER be the same.
God had a plan & has a plan & all of us are a part of that plan. We just have to work to see where we fit into that plan. Sometimes the work is hard, sometimes it is rewarding, sometimes it is surprising, & sometimes it is just plain fun. With Michael it was all of that & then some. God anointed Michael & gave him direction & goals & the drive to accomplish all that God wanted to do in him & through him.
From 1989 to 1996 Michael was youth minister at NCH; he was OUR youth minister. Somehow he WAS ours. We watched him grow, mature, get married, finish college, & be used by God to change & touch everyone with whom he came into contact. God used him to impact our family, our girls, & us. Michael introduced us to Contemporary Christian music & through God-guided circumstances the Hill Radio station became a reality.We were so blessed to be a part of that youth ministry & to participate & watch & stand amazed at what God did from one week to the next.
We found it so very hard to let go when God called Michael & Kim to another church in another state. But the bonds that were created were never severed. We stayed in contact & visited & listened as he & kim shared what God was doing in his ministry as he went from Arkansas to Alabama to Texas. God was using Michael to impact youth across the South. But no matter where he went Michael was still just the boy from WestMonroe whom God had called to serve. Maybe he never realized he was a God-sized man.
And then along came Hannah; a precious gift directly from God.Michael’s love would beam from his face when he talked about his daughter. She became the center of their family & no father ever loved a child as Michael loved Hannah.
God was calling Michael in a new direction; to share his experiences of youth ministry & working in churches in order to equip a new generation of youth ministers & staff. EPIC Ministry was more than a vision, it had purpose & direction & potential & . . . . . We may never know what God would have done through EPIC. Because God had other plans. God’s plans & God’s timing are not ours. His plans & timing don’t always agree with what we desire & what we envision. God had other plans for Michael.
We will never really know on this side of Heaven whay God chose to call Michael home. But God’s ways are not our (MY) ways. Right now I know I hurt, & there is a great big void, and YES LORD there are questions like Why? &Why now? & Why him? and would you please show us a reason why? and why would you take a loving husband & father from those who need him most? and why deprive a new generation of youth from seeing You through Michael’s ministry? And Lord please speak & shout out WHY?!
I loved Michael as if he were my very own. He became so much a part of our family & our lives; & just the experience of being with him was a joy. He loved the Lord Jesus with all of his being & he shared that love with everyone. The Lord was the source of his joy, his strength, & his ministry. This was the example Michael lived by & the example he leaves for me & for all of us.
“Those who are wise shall shine like the brightness of the firmament, and those who turn many to righteousness like the stars forever and ever.” Daniel 12:3
There have only been two men in my life who met these Biblical qualities and Michael was one of them. Michael was a God-sized man.
Michael will be greatly missed but he is with his Lord.
AnnaMargaret Gillland, 10-23-10
Comment by AnnaMargaret Gilliland on October 25, 2010 at 8:05 am
Michael was the tool God used to bring me into student ministry. This process started twenty years ago this summer whenever God called Michael to start a local (Northeast LA) youth summer camp called Cross Camp. Several years later we both found ourselves on a small college campus in Walnut Ridge, Arkansas. Michael was the camp pastor and I was a student. On the first night of camp, Michael preached what God had placed on his heart and simply asked, “Who will respond to God’s calling on your life?” I responded. Despite the worst “camp” experience EVER thanks to mosquitoes, bad weather and tater-tot casserole (many of you understand exactly what I’m talking about) God moved in a powerful way. It’s crazy to think about how his fingerprints are all over the Kingdom of God! He will be greatly missed!
Comment by Josh Peoples on October 25, 2010 at 8:45 am
I met Michael back in like the spring of ’08, as he and Mary Margaret Collingsworth came out to Wes Butler’s studio in Flower Mound to hear the Wes Butler band and audition us to come play at the student center @ FBC Colleyville. We hit it off and eventually starting playing over there. I am blessed to this day, still being able to be apart of Epic Student Ministries. Michael Smith has blessed me so much with his friendship and his love for serving the Lord and bringing souls to Christ. I have had the opportunity to be apart in D-Now’s that he has put together, and the passion and goal that he had for students was amazing! He was so creative with one goal in mind. I spoke to him in September, he just called me to share 12 students came to the Lord at his first Epic Ministry that he had spoke at and he was so excited about that night. I am going to miss calling him, getting Kim and Hannah circus tickets and mavs tickets. He was a true friend and he will be miss by all. His legend lives on in at Epic in Colleyville. The Craig Rigney Band will miss our high energy for Christ buddy for sure. May his legend live on with a plan to bring the students to Jesus! Thank you Michael!
Comment by Chris Hall on October 25, 2010 at 9:29 am
Michael Smith, was an awesome friend and fellow Youth Minister. My mother had Michael in her Sunday School class at Cedar Crest Baptist Church. While serving as Youth Minister at North Monroe Baptist Church, I first met Michael. I think that he had just begin serving as the new Youth Minister at New Chapel Hill Church. Michael was young dynamic and loved the Lord will all his heart. He, Mark and Keith Abbott and seveal other college students put together a drama or skit team. Most of these guys went to NLU (ULM now) and were involved at the Baptist Student Union. I heard about their skit team and invited them to come to our church and do a 5th Quarter. They agreed and came. They later came back to for several Youth Lock-ins and a Wednesday night things. They were incredible gifted and our youth ate it up! Their skits were usually stupid, silly and hilarous… (and our students loved them); and the gospel was always presented and decisions for Christ were made! I served as Youth Pastor at North Monroe Baptist Church from 1987 to 2000 and every year the first person I called and invited to speak and lead one of our DNow groups was Michael Smith! Even though he was busy with his youth ministry at NCH, Michael always came! Our students loved Michael and he loved them and invested his life in students. Not only that, but Michael impacted me greatly too. I learned much about doing ministry from my younger brother in Christ! Michael, I love you, Bro.! I know I’m not saying goodbye, but only saying see ya later! Kim, Hannah, Mark, Mrs. Betty and Mr. Wayne, you are in my prayers. I am praying comfort, peace and provision for you during this difficult time. Thanks for sharing Michael with us! He will be missed on this earth, but not ever forgotten… Hannah – You had a Dad that loved you very much and ran with endurance the race that was set before him, and he kept his eyes fixed on Jesus (Hebrews 12:2)! You should be very proud to have had a father like Micheal. Michael you finished the race and you finished strong! And that is what we are all called to do. Thank you Lord for the life of Michael Smith! I look forward to see you again soon.
Comment by Jay George on October 25, 2010 at 9:56 am
Michael Smith, was an awesome friend and fellow Youth Minister. My mother had Michael in her Sunday School class at Cedar Crest Baptist Church. While serving as Youth Minister at North Monroe Baptist Church, I first met Michael. I think that he had just begin serving as the new Youth Minister at New Chapel Hill Church. Michael was young dynamic and loved the Lord will all his heart. He, Mark and Keith Abbott and seveal other college students put together a drama or skit team. Most of these guys went to NLU (ULM now) and were involved at the Baptist Student Union. I heard about their skit team and invited them to come to our church and do a 5th Quarter. They agreed and came. They later came back to for several Youth Lock-ins and a Wednesday night things. They were incredible gifted and our youth ate it up! Their skits were usually stupid, silly and hilarous… (and our students loved them); and the gospel was always presented and decisions for Christ were made! I served as Youth Pastor at North Monroe Baptist Church from 1987 to 2000 and every year the first person I called and invited to speak and lead one of our DNow groups was Michael Smith! Even though he was busy with his youth ministry at NCH, Michael always came! Our students loved Michael and he loved them and invested his life in students. Not only that, but Michael impacted me greatly too. I learned much about doing ministry from my younger brother in Christ! Michael, I love you, Bro.! I know I’m not saying goodbye, but only saying see ya later! Kim, Hannah, Mark, Mrs. Betty and Mr. Wayne, you are in my prayers. I am praying comfort, peace and provision for you during this difficult time. Thanks for sharing Michael with us! He will be missed on this earth, but not ever forgotten… Hannah – You had a Dad that loved you very much and ran with endurance the race that was set before him, and he kept his eyes fixed on Jesus (Hebrews 12:2)! You should be very proud to have had a father like Micheal. Michael you finished the race and you finished strong! And that is what we are all called to do. Thank you Lord for the life of Michael Smith! I look forward to seeing you again soon.
Comment by Jay George on October 25, 2010 at 10:16 am
I had the pleasure of knowing Michael, in all of his goofy, hyper ways, haha. He was such an obviously ‘on fire’ kinda guy. On fire, first and foremost for God, whom he served with every breath he had, and also ‘on fire’ for his family and friends and youth ministry. I have no doubt that anyone, christian or not, who crossed paths with him knew who he served and his passion for doing so. His father and mother-in-law were my youth ministers so we came in contact several times thru Cross Camps and events. A couple of people from our youth group stayed at Kim & Michael’s house week while doing Frontliners at their church. The whole week Michael was pranking us by putting noise makers under our beds and picking on us girls for making a mess of his bathroom with all our make-up and hair stuff. He was always so much fun to be around. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him. Until we meet again………..
Comment by sarah hatten guess on October 25, 2010 at 1:43 pm
Michael had a great passion for seeing students saved for Christ, and it was a privilege to work with him at FBCColleyville. He obviously left a legacy not only here, but in all the places God chose to use him in his life. We will see you again my friend!
Comment by Cheryl Barron on October 25, 2010 at 3:51 pm
Michael Smith glowed with the Joy of the Lord. I taught Michael in the 5th grade at Claiborne Elementary in West Monroe. He captured my heart with his always ready smile. He drew friends like a magnet. Then I was priviledged to teach him in Sunday School at Cedar Crest Baptist church. He loved the Lord, and it showed in everything he did. He was a special friend to my daughter, Suzie in our youth dept., and my son, Jay who was a Youth Minister also. He really cared about people of all ages. I was not surprised when he surrendered to full time Christian service. He always was a youth minister. I was so proud of Michael and the life he lived for Jesus. This world could use more Michael Smiths, but I know his legacy is all the young people he inspired to follow in his footsteps. Thank God for allowing us to know and love Michael Smith. I thank Mrs. Betty and Mr. Wayne for raising him in the nurture and admonition of the Lord and sharing him with a world in need. Kim, I thank you for sharing Michael with so many young people. Hannah, I know you will really miss your dad, but always remember that he dedicated his life to following Jesus, and no one could have done it better. Be proud of him.
Michael, it won’t be long before we will join you at the feet of Jesus our Savior. Until then, sing some choruses to Him for me.
Love in Christ,
Una George
Comment by Una George on October 25, 2010 at 5:03 pm
Michael loved to break it down to us Hunter Street students “shotgun style” I will always remember him and his family will be in my prayers thanks for the good memories Michael
Comment by Reed Shumaker on October 25, 2010 at 9:34 pm
We have very found memories of Michael. One of our faves was when he would say “can ya whoo whoo whoo”…that always brought a smile. Or when he’d nail a 3 pt shot and say “buttah”…great ball player. Or the fact that he practically named our middle child whose real name is Kennan but because of Michael everyone did and still do call her KK…even after 14 years.
But the best memory of all, and the one that brings us the most joy, is that he loved Jesus and his family. We love and miss him.
Comment by Brian and Dyanna Jones on October 25, 2010 at 10:59 pm
What to say about Michael Smith, we shared a dream and it still lives. While he was youth minister at New Chapel Hill he called me one day and wanted to meet about puting together a camp. He and I and Lance Otwell met at NCH and Cross Camp was born. He allowed me to be a part of his dream and we will not see all the fruits of this venture until we all get to heaven. I thank God that he places such people into our lives that motivate, inspire and challenge us to more than we ever thought we could be. One experience I will share, after being in Florida for a couple of years with Cross Camp we decided to go somewhere else. The place was Arkansas and that time it was not infested with mosquitoes. Dana and John McKay were serving with me at Temple and they had a daughter. Michael asked me if I could ask a certain young lady to be one of my chaperon. The rest is history I never lost a chaperon before but let it be said my trip home from that camp was one person short. Michael your love for Jesus was evident may we never see its end.
Comment by Wayne-o on October 26, 2010 at 5:11 am
Thank you Michael for the investment that you made in the lives of so many people, especially my two precious kids. Your love and passion for Jesus Christ was so evident in your walk and I smile remembering all the amazing journeys that we shared with you at The Met. You are a blessing to so many! As we grieve your passing, we know that you are in the presence of our amazing Heavenly Father. You have passed the torch and light to those left behind. We will carry your love and passion for Jesus to the world. You, my fiend, will live in each of us forever.
Kim and Hannah, please know that you will stay in our continued thoughts and prayers. Thank you for sharing this man with us all. He will be greatly missed.
I look forward to being reunited with you soon sweet friend.
Comment by Beth Smith on October 26, 2010 at 10:23 am
Michael Baptized my sons then 13 and 8, two years ago today at FBC Colleyville. I have no doubt that his work with the high school kids had an influence on my 13 yr old’s decision for Christ. He will always be a part of my boys’ salvation, and I am literally, eternally grateful . Our many prayers go out to out to his family during this time. Thank you for sharing so much, and changing so many lives in such a short amount of time. See you soon!
Comment by Brandy Lindsey on October 26, 2010 at 12:45 pm
Epic – “A narrative poem, in primitive times one which was recited, describing a series of deeds and adventures of a hero who is the central figure.”
There are many of us who have had the privilege of knowing Michael Smith, some more deeply than others. My children had a more intimate relationship with him as he was their youth pastor at one time, whereas I only knew him “from afar”. I remember one of the only times I visited the youth group on a Wednesday night when he was new to our fellowship. As Michael led these kids into the Presence of the Lord, I could sense the anointing of the Holy Spirit strongly on this man of God. The Lord showed me – he could go only one of two ways – to the right or to the left; he was not one who would compromise the gospel. At one time there was a struggle going on, but Michael’s deep love for the Lord would keep Him from making concessions. Yes, there were deeds and adventures that we saw in his life – so many of us touched by his selfless love. He was there for my children when their sister was battling cancer, holding them tight in the midst of their pain. I knew they were always “safe” with Michael; they were well taken care of and I will forever be grateful for his concern for each of them.
Kim, as I was praying for you, the song “No Matter What” by Kerrie Roberts was playing. I hope these words encourage you as you press into Jesus and feel His deep abiding love, His amazing grace, and His everlasting peace during this time of immense sorrow…
“No Matter What” by Kerrie Roberts
I’m running back to Your promises one more time
Lord, that’s all I can hold on to
I’ve gotta say this has taken me by surprise
But nothing surprises You
Before a heartache can ever touch my life
It has to go through Your hands
And even though I, I keep asking why, I keep asking why
No matter what, I’m gonna love You
No matter what, I’m gonna need You
I know that You can find a way to keep me from the pain
But if not, if not, I’ll trust You
No matter what
No matter what
When I’m stuck in this nothingness by myself
I’m just sitting in silence
There’s no way I can make it without Your help
I won’t even try it
I know You have Your reasons for everything
So I will keep believing
Whatever I might be feeling
God, You are my hope, and You’ll be my strength
Anything I don’t have, You can give it to me
But it’s ok if You don’t
I’m not here for those things
The touch of Your love is enough on its own
No matter what, I still love You
And I’m gonna need You
Continuing to hold you up in prayer -
Pamela Matthews
Comment by Pamela Matthews on October 26, 2010 at 3:23 pm
oh what to say about MES?? i will never forget how he made everything we did at First Baptist Colleyville memorable. i will never forget when we took a mission trip to the “dirty dirty” (New Orleans) as Michael would call it. all of the students were on 2 greyhound busses and we were going to get on a river boat for a fun night. we are all sitting on this bus and we suddenly hear a huge bump and the bus shook. we found out later that Michael had backed a 9 passenger van into the bus. everytime he would close a service he would say “i love yall like my dog”, i just recently found out that he didn’t have a dog. oh Michael……hahah
i can’t wait to see how your Nike sneakers look when walking on gold streets! see you soon
Comment by Madi Koontz on October 26, 2010 at 4:22 pm
I will never forget meeting Michael for the first time in Milton Florida at Boot Camp along with Ben they came into the worship area with these big black afro wigs on. They were a scream. I am so grateful for the leadership that Michael gave to the students and parents at the 24:7 student building at Hunter Street Baptist Church in Hoover Alabama. That is when I learned that I had a passion for serving with students.
Kim, I remember when you first brought Hannah home on Waterside Drive in Lake Cyrus and Amanda and I came to visit you and Michael and your precious new daughter. I am praying for you and Hannah and all of Michael’s family that is grieving for his loss. Heaven is a much better place now with his laughter. My prayers are with you tonight and tomorrow.
Comment by Kim Burk on October 26, 2010 at 6:29 pm
I am in South Bend Indiana tonight with The Imperials…my mind and heart keep drifting back to my time together with Michael at FBCC. Tomorrow morning I will stop and join from a distance in the Life Celebration of one of the best people I have ever worked with in 30 years of ministry. I recall so many times he would drop by my office, sit in my zebra striped chair(which he always asked if he could have it someday) and we would talk about life,cooking,LSU Tigers…and of course,reaching students for Christ. How excited he would get when he would share with me about what he was going to share with the students that week…about what God had given him for that day. It was always about the kids…it was never about him…it was a life way too short,but a life that was constantly poured into others. Kim and Hannah,I am praying constantly during this season for you…Michael always made me smile and then laugh and was a constant encouragement to me. Every time I think of him it will remind me to “keep giving it up for God” wherever I go. Denise and I love you guys.
Comment by Paul Smith on October 26, 2010 at 10:27 pm
Mike was my student pastor, my brother and my friend. He came to our student ministry at a time when we needed direction..and he was absolutely the right person for us all at the time. Michael taught me so much about the Lord, but the thing that sticks with me the most, was his utmost desire to have his students and our friends know Him, and truly know Him. Mike wasn’t your typical youth pastor, he didn’t get into the pleasantries of making people feel good or giving you warm fuzzies. Mike was real. He told you like it was, even if you didn’t want to hear it, but he always told the truth in love, and that’s because Mike cared. He truly cared about his students, about his family, about everyone he came in contact with, and most importantly he cared about making sure that we knew, that we knew, that we knew, that we had a REAL relationship with our Creator. He wasn’t about “getting together and singing kum-bay-yah” like he used to say, he was about connecting on a deep spiritual level with our Lord and making a difference for Him. Michael guided me through what was perhaps the most difficult time in my life thus far, and without his guidance, his love, and his shoulder to cry on and his loving smile each Wednesday and Sunday, I don’t know where this broken soul would have been. Although he is gone and we will never see his infectious smile or hear his contagious laugh in this lifetime, Mike is dancing on streets of gold, and enjoying joy unimaginable, and that gives me solace. Until we meet again my brother, I love you, and thank you for all that you have done, I will never, ever forget you.
Comment by Austen Bailey on October 27, 2010 at 12:24 am
In the past 4 years I have been in a battle with my personal life choices, and a battle I must say I was losing badly. About 13 years ago God put a very special person in my life, my wife of almost 13 years Katie. Lord knows over the last 3-4 yrs I have given her more than enough just cause to pack up the kids and move on without me; but by God’s grace she somehow was able to see a brighter future for me and our family. About 8 months ago I surrendered to the fact that, even with an unbelievable warrior at my side like Katie, we were no match for the demons that had invaded our life unless we submitted all faith in God to lead us through. I have no reservations today that we will march forward, leading our lives and providing guidance to our 3 kids with God leading the way. I share this brief testimony…with you Mike, because even now when you’re walking hand in hand with the Almighty, you are still touching hearts here on solid ground. After hearing of your passing, I have been drawn to learn more about where you’ve been and how you’ve been doing since the last time I saw or spoke to you ( which was probably 1991 or 1992 prior graduation from WMHS and moving on to College). Sadly, but honestly, I can’t remember the last time we spoke or saw each other. However, Brother, God has been speaking leaning on my heart through your Epic Life over the past few days. I was talking with my Wife last night about some of the memories I recalled of times spent with you, Mark, Scott and some others that impacted my life while in the Youth Group at Cedar Crest SBC when we were all much younger. I made the comment that I really wished our two older kids (Ryan 12, Allie 9, Parker 4) could have been a part of just one of your youth retreats. Also, I expressed how I really wished my wife could have met you, for no other reason than to experience the greatness that always seemed to surround you. Well, after prayer and a push from God, this morning Katie and I are dropping the kids off to school and driving 4 hours round trip from Mississippi so my wife can be introduced to you at your Epic Home-Going Service in West Monroe. I’m faithful that Katie will be blessed to meet you through God’s word and we will strengthen our relationship with God through your celebrated life. I truly believe God is calling us to be with the many many people today in WM whose lives you have touched during your abbreviated stay among us. Please let my Mother know I’m still fighting the fight! However… with God, Katie, and Michael E. Smith now in my corner, she can rest more at ease and better enjoy her eternal stay with all the greatness such as yourself that now sing the Gospel with her in Heaven! “I Can Only Imagine”…but you no longer have too!
Comment by Gabe Ishee on October 27, 2010 at 6:49 am
So wish I could be there for Michael’s going home celebration today. I am sitting in my 11th Grade Government class today waiting for my students to come in. From being a member of “Stark Naked and the Car Thieves” in the 1980′s to serving with him at FBC Springdale…it was an honor to grow up in the faith with Michael. The word that keeps coming back to me this week as I’ve thought about him is “AUTHENTIC”. Love you Michael…can’t wait to see you again. Glad you’re feeling better today.
Comment by Steve Farris on October 27, 2010 at 8:06 am
I was in 8th grade when I first meet Michael. I went to NCH with a friend one Wednesday night and I walked into this room with bean bag chairs and all of these kids and young adults just talking and hanging out. I had never been to a church quite like that, then one of the young adults got up and preached a message and I felt like he was talking to me. He always made me feel like that everytime he spoke I felt like it was just me and him sitting in the room talking about Jesus. We always had such fun trips and on one of those trips at Splashtown in Shreveport is where I accepted Christ. We were at a Geoff Moore and the Distance concert and they did an invitation and I took it. They then told all that had said the prayer to go to the back and talk to one of the ministers in tent and see where we go from here so to speak. I walked back there and with the biggest smile on his face there stood Michael. It was like he had been waiting on me to take that step. He gave me a big hug and told me how happy he was to know that he would see me in Heaven one day. That was my first step in my Christain life and it was all because of Michael teaching me about Jesus and letting me know that he didn’t care about the junk he wanted me. I know I have a million stories about my time at NCH our trip to Astro world, the youth rallies at First Baptist, D.N. weekends, the skits. All of them have one thing in common when I think of them the one person that sticks out in my mind is Michael. I have heard that when you go to Heaven that all the people that have had an impact on your Spirtual Life will be there to greet you at the Pearly Gates, I know that Michael will be there with me and I have a peace knowing that. He was a AWSOME Man of God and I feel privileged to have known him. We will see you again and until then we will keep your memory alive here on Earth.
Comment by Leia Broadway Fontenot on October 27, 2010 at 9:06 am
Wow where do I start, I met Michael at fbc-springdale. He was a great man with a great wife. I agree with so many of these descriptions of him and his life, but ironically I am sitting in a basketball gym where he made a connection with me. He helped me focus on god and then we just talked and enjoyed life. He was the bees t friend a person could have. I loved him like a brother and we could “play ball” as he would say for hours and just enjoy being around each other. He was a great accountability partner who would pray for you and never judge you. What a great christ like example. I am so sorry for losing contact over the years and look forward to seeing you on someday. I love you Kim and will be praying for you. Call me if u need anything ever. Words to a song just keep coming to me from the part of amazing grace during ten service ” I’ve been set free ” what a freedom he truly has now, I love you brother. Prepare that court to play ball when I get there.
Comment by Deon Birkes on October 27, 2010 at 11:08 am
Michael and Lance were the youth pastors at Whitesburg Baptist Church when I was in Middle School. I very vividly remember the passion he had for living with complete devotion to the Lord. I am so thankful for the way he served Christ with his life–it made a lasting imprint!!
I pray that God will bring peace into the hearts of those who miss him now and will for years to come.
Comment by Margaret Turner on October 27, 2010 at 11:33 am
When I met Michael, here at FBC Colleyville, I notice something very special about him. When he talked to a person, he would look directly into their eyes and listen with caring and concern, as if there was no one else around. He loved sharing God’s word with others, especially students, about his relationship with Jesus Christ. He enjoyed sharing stories about his adventures, friends and family, especially beautiful Kim and their precious daughter, Hannah. He never passed my office without stopping to ask how I and my family were doing. He has left a big empty space in our hearts. We are going to miss him. The angels are rejoicing in Glory. I Thess 4:13
Comment by Rose McPherson on October 27, 2010 at 1:35 pm
Michael and I met at the BSU at ULM (NLU to be exact) and the day I surrendered my life to youth ministry he was the first person I told.
My funniest memory of Michael goes back to several years ago when he was at the MET and I was youth pastor at a church in Tyler, TX. We both wound up taking our middle school students to camp at LA Tech. I had no idea however that Michael and his group were there until this event. I was standing in line at Chick-Fil-A at the Tech food court and a Tech Police officer comes up to me and says “Mr. Dean I am sorry but we don’t allow ULM graduates on our campus, I will have to escort you off campus now.” I am standing there totally blown away thinking how does this cop know my name and that I went to ULM and what is this craziness about not being allowed at Tech. As my mind is racing out walks Michal out from behind a pole and he says, “Darrell Dean, you dirty Cajun, what are you doing.” I will never forget that moment, I felt like I should be looking around fro the “Punked” cameras.
Comment by Darrell Dean on October 27, 2010 at 2:59 pm
There have been a few men other than my dad who have shaped me into the man I am today. Michael Smith was the first. I tremble to think where I would be had it not been for Michael’s intentional pursuit of me as a junior high kid who was running from Jesus. Today I’m a pastor a year and a half into starting a new church. Had Michael not stepped in when he did I am pretty sure that I might not be doing what I am doing today. God’s grace in my life is so evident as I reflect on those years. Kim, I love you, miss you and am rejoicing at the thought that Michael is worshiping the King today.
Comment by Drew Tucker Jr on October 27, 2010 at 3:08 pm
One of the most moving scenes in the movie “Dead Poets Society” was when the students were showing honor to their teacher as he left. They each stood on their desks and shouted “O Captain My Captain”. The students were not only telling their teacher goodbye, but letting him know how much he meant to them. As your casket went down the isle I whispered the words O captain my captain. 2 Timothy 4:7 (New International Version)
7I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.
You are a brother and we have lost a great soldier,communicator, student minister, Father, Husband, and friend. You have had such an impact on me and my wife. I regret that we didn’t have the opportunity to get to know each other better. See you in heaven my brother from another mother.
Comment by Jon McLain on October 27, 2010 at 4:48 pm
YO,
One of the most moving scenes in the movie “Dead Poets Society” was when the students were showing honor to their teacher as he left. They each stood on their desks and shouted “O Captain My Captain”. The students were not only telling their teacher goodbye, but letting him know how much he meant to them. As your casket went down the isle I whispered the words O captain my captain. 2 Timothy 4:7 (New International Version)
7I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.
You are a brother and we have lost a great soldier,communicator, student minister, Father, Husband, and friend. You have had such an impact on me and my wife. I regret that we didn’t have the opportunity to get to know each other better.
See you in heaven my brother. fromanothermother
Comment by Jon McLain on October 27, 2010 at 4:49 pm
As I read all the comments posted, I can’t help but think “well done, my good and faithful servant.” I met Michael when we were interviewing him to be our Student Pastor at FBCC. I remember my first impression of Michael was his enthusiasm for Student Ministry and his genuine love for students and a desire to see them come to a meaningful relationship with Jesus Christ. I can remember many talks about his plans and dreams for the students. I remember when the staff got together at my house for the bowl game between LSU and Ohio State. Michael did love his LSU Tigers. But more than anything I remember the smile that came across his face when he talked about Kim and Hannah and talked about the joy that they brought to his life. Michael will be missed but his legacy will live on for generations. Our love and prayers go out to his family, especially Kim and Hannah. We wish we had much longer to be with him to be near…still our lives are so much richer for the time that he was here.
Love and Blessings
Comment by Darius & Sheila McKay on October 27, 2010 at 4:57 pm
It was the second Sunday in June of 1988 and I had gone to church that morning at the First Baptist Church in Marion, LA. I was feeling pretty horrible from a late night out the night before, but something in that service pricked my heart. I remember telling the Lord, “If you want my busted life you can have it. I don’t know what use it will be to you, but you can have it.” I prayed at the altar to receive Christ and walked out the back door of the church and headed to my car. I got in and started the car, but before I could drive away the passenger door opened and this guy jumped in. He introduced himself as Michael Smith, the new part-time youth director at the church. I said, “So what? Get out of my car!”
Michael didn’t. In fact, he grabbed the cassette tape that was in my tape player and asked, “What are you listening too?” I was listening to Def Lepard, and that particular tape was my favorite. He read the name of the tape and then broke it in half! He told me, “You don’t need to listen to that anymore.” I was furious! I threatened him with some choice words and told him I’d never listen to that southern Gospel junk. He pulled a tape out of his pocket and said, “Give this a try. If you like it, come back Wednesday night at 6:30 and I’ll give you some more.” Then he got out.
The tape was called “This means War!” It was by a group named “Petra.” I listened to that tape over and over and over. I was hooked! I went back Wednesday night at 6:30 to get some more. Michael told me he had plenty of music, but I needed to come to the Bible study first. I went, and I was never the same again.
For the next 8 or 9 months I lived with Wayne, Betty, David, Michael, and Mark. I spent more time at that house than at my own. I would hate to have paid their grocery bill! Michael discipled me and taught me how to live for Christ. Then he showed me that God was calling me to do that for students as well.
That was 22 years ago. I still don’t understand why a 17 year old kid that had just graduated would hop in a 19 year olds car and take a chance. But I’m so glad he did. I don’t know how many students I’ve had the privilege of discipling over the course of the last 22 years, but I do know this. I have done my best to teach them the same way he taught me. Michael invested in my life. He saw something I didn’t see in myself. And every time a student makes a decision for Christ, I know that the reason they can is because of Michael Smith. Michael Smith saved my life. Don’t misunderstand: Jesus saved me. But Michael taught me how to live for him. I love you Michael Smith. I owe you my life. And I promise, I’ll see you again soon.
Comment by Den Hussey on October 27, 2010 at 6:21 pm
It’s absolutely amazing to read all the memories about Michael. So many people knew this one guy in so many different ways. Some knew Michael intimately and others only casually. Some spent years getting to know him and others had brief moments. For me, I guess I was somewhere in the middle. Michael was my youth pastor for a few short years in the mid 90s at New Chapel Hill. Like so many I joined Team Michael instantly. Also like so many others I cried like a baby when he left New Chapel Hill. The following couple of years I called Michael probably once a month. I’m sure he grew tired of me, but he never let on. Michael used our phone conversations to continue to disciple me. Later I was able to intern for him at Whitesburg back in the summer of 2000, even living with him and Kim for a few weeks. That’s when I learned of Mike’s love of almost frozen dutch chocolate milk and refridgerated doritos. I also abandoned cologne (that was required). That summer working for Michael was a key part of my foundation in youth ministry. For the last 10 years, Michael has remained a close spiritual mentor. Although not talking often he was always the one I called when a major ministry fork came along.
Ironically, with all my time spent with Michael over the past 16 years, I do not have a single picture of the two of us. No reason, I guess we just never took one. (side note: If you have one of us, I would like it.) But what’s more important than a photo is the imprint he left on my life. Without question Michael was the main tool God used to call me into ministry. God showed me through Michael what a passionate youth pastor looked like and how a devout Christ follower lived. Michael Smith was the most passionate youth pastor, intentional discipler and lover of life I have ever had the pleasure of meeting. No one will ever know the true impact of this one man’s life. He was not perfect but I know the words Christ greeted him with. Well done, my good and faithful servant.
Comment by Jonny Mac on October 27, 2010 at 10:26 pm
I had the amazing privilege of working with Michael for almost three years at First, Colleyville, Texas and watching his life on vivid display for all to see. We spent more hours together than I can count talking and dreaming about reaching people and touching this city. Michael lived in hi-def and with a contagious love for Jesus and we are all the better for it. This morning I reread Paul’s words in I Thessalonians 5, “admonish the unruly, encourage the fainthearted, help the weak, be patient with all men” and was struck by the fact that Michael’s life and ministry did just that.
He was not a man of pretense nor spiritual superiority. He had a unique and effective way of showing compassion and acceptance even to the most rebellious heart with a goal of leading people to Christ. While I could recite an endless list of accomplishments, his greatest success was reflected in the gleam in his eye when he talked about Kim and Hannah. His love for his family left an indelible impression on all of us and one that I will not forget.
He really was a living illustration of Paul’s words to us, “we were pleased to impart to you not only the gospel of God but also our own lives, because you had become very dear to us.” That was Michael Smith. May his tribe increase!
Comment by David & Daneta Sylvester on October 28, 2010 at 6:41 am
I am the Area Director for FCA in NE Tarrant County. Michael and I began partnering together with me and FCA in 2009. His love for Jesus and impacting kids lives was infectious. We shared the same heart and spirit. The Big Al Concert and Refuel Event FCA was a part of were incredible. I was sad when he left FBE and my loss is even greater in his passing. I will miss my Brother in Christ. He always said these words, “Holla at a Brother”. This is my “Holla” to a great brother in Christ and partner in ministry. He will be missed, but his IMPACT will go on for several generations!
Comment by Kevin Baze on October 28, 2010 at 9:28 am
Webster describes a Captain as a military leader: the commander of a unit or a body of troops, one who leads, a person of importance or influence in a field. Michael, you were not only just a man but also our Captain. You served in the army of our Lord and directed us into battle. May we pick up the pieces and continue to fight! “O Captian! My Captain!”
Comment by Wendy Fretwell Coleman on October 28, 2010 at 11:38 am
I was in the youth group with Michael at Cedar Crest. I always knew he would make a difference in the world. Even as a teenager, his heart was so on fire for Christ that he always witnessing and had a genuine concern for others. Michael was brave and direct, never afraid to push the envelope. He had boundless energy and enthusiasm. Michael was a leader and a mentor. But, most of all..he was a friend. He always had time to listen and pray for you or with you. So many lives were touched by him and his ministry. What a pleasure to know him!
Comment by Tina Gross Glass on October 28, 2010 at 1:25 pm
before i even met michael, i saw his influence in my friends brandilyn and dee anne. they not only had the joy and peace of a spirit filled life, they were eager to see others come to know Christ. i grew up in church and could talk the talk but i didn’t have what they had. brandilyn invited me to their youth group at NCH where i met michael and my life would forever be changed.
he had that same passion to love people, bring them to Jesus, and disciple them. it was on a youth choir tour in texas that found me really aware of my lost state and really desiring that personal relationship with Christ. i resisted that choice until we found ourselves in a dairy queen parking lot in van, tx due to our bus breaking down. it really was a divine intervention as after hours of waiting, i finally surrendered to God’s drawing me to Himself. so in that parking lot at 11:22 pm with michael and brandilyn by my side, i surrendered my life to Christ.
i started my junior year of high school that fall and though i was certain of my salvation, i fell back into my old ways several months into that year. so when the summer rolled around and michael started talking about this new camp he was putting together called crosscamp i wasn’t exactly eager to go. but one wednesday night michael came up to me and said, you should go ahead and sign up, God’s already told me you are going! well ok, then. i don’t know if it was the first crosscamp but it was definitely one of the first and we had gone a day early to set up. that night michael told us that there were some in that room who were at a crossroads of either surrendering to Christ’s lordship or getting so far back into the world, there’d be no turning back. he knew that was me. i knew that was me.
so that was it. i made my choice and fully submitted to Christ’s lordship and have never looked back. due to different circumstances i had still not been baptized from the year before so soon after returning from camp, i was blessed to have michael baptize me. that was 17 years ago and though i’ve seen my share of trials, i have never once thought about turning my back on the One who saved me and loved me while i was in the pit of my own sin. michael always challenged us. he always seemed to know what was going on in our lives as youth and confronted us, but i never once felt judged, only loved…a true reflection of the Jesus he served.
due to my years of training and career and his many moves, my communication with michael since we both moved on from that church has been mainly through emails and the occasional reunion in person. but i have always felt that i could call him if i needed him and he would be there for me. for some reason i always wanted to make him proud so that he would know that he “did not run or labor for nothing” as he invested in my life. as a physician, i don’t understand how one so young and seemingly healthy could pass so quickly. as a Christ follower, i can only think of enoch about whom the bible says he “walked with God; then he was no more, because God took him away.”
michael finished the race marked out for him, and finished well. i am heartbroken now, but thanks to you, michael, i will see you again in heaven someday!
Comment by Stacy Conville on October 28, 2010 at 8:07 pm
I remember meeting Michael at NCH and forming an immediate friendship.
He introduced himself and told me that he was raised on a mayonaise farm.
I knew from then on we would be able to communicate on a whole new level.
Michael made being a Christian and going to church a cool thing to do and at the
same time it lead us closer to Jesus. I remember working on Michaels car stereo
one time and accidentally cut my wrist. I said “look Michael I will have a scar here
Like Jesus” and Michael said “yea now only if you had a heart like him”! I got the
opportunity to be a part of his youth staff and grow with his ministry. I will never
forget the impact it had on me, I only wish I could have done more. These last few
days God has really been speaking to me on what is most important in life and Micheal
has been an example of all of them. I believe all of our comments tell the story of
Michael’s EPIC LIFE. I believe Michael is standing in front of a mountain of crowns
ready to lay them at the feet of Jesus.
Comment by Marc Mcvay on October 28, 2010 at 10:48 pm
Epic-ness gone home…
I remember meeting Michael Smith for the first time. I like always was shy and coming to a new church with my dad when I was only 11-years-old, awkward, and nerdy seemed like the end of the world. My dad brought me to the old youth room (that doesn’t look the same at all by the way) and called Michael over to meet me. Michael greeted me and wanted to know everything about me all at once. I was a little overwhelmed. I mean when I say I was shy… I WAS SHY… After a little bit he showed me to my Sunday School room. What I remember most about this meeting was that he came to check up on me after Sunday School. He wanted to develop a relationship with me and wanted to get to know me for me… not for the fact that my dad was Werner Aswell.
I will never forget those almost four years that he was my youth minister. Those were some great times. And like it was said at his funeral today, he had some sayings. I am not sure if I would say they were hilarious, but they were all his. On wednesday nights when it seemed as if we were drifting away, he would bring us back with… “focus, focus” in that accent of his. He was always saying “What up player?” to everyone.
I mean I can’t leave out Cross Camp! Cross Camp was so much fun and I think that I really came into my own… but this would have never happened without Michael. I’ll never forget our Dauphin Island adventure and how we had to come back without even getting to do any missions. But Michael didn’t see it that way. And looking back I don’t either. We developed good relationships during that time. I had some good mentors during that time. And even though I don’t talk to most of them now, I credit Michael with putting these people in my life to teach me what I needed to know at that time. I will never forget the strong Christian women that were discipled by Michael and Kim that helped me to grow in Christ. Christy and Misty, Cindy, DeeAnn, JoEllen, the list goes on and on…
I will never forget that my sister, Kari, had the biggest crush on Michael and called him her boyfriend. She was only 5-years-old, but Michael even drew her in. She would run up to him on Sunday mornings and give him a hug. And I will never forget one day he told her… “I hope I have a little girl like you one day.” That brings tears to my eyes.
What I remember most about him, however, was his passion for the Lord. When I think about Michael I think about the disciple Peter. Peter sometimes got into trouble for speaking out of turn or not thinking about what he was saying… but he was passionate about the Lord. Michael was our modern day Peter. One of Michael’s sermons that I will never forget was about the verse in Revelation about God spewing us from his mouth if we were lukewarm. Michael said God will throw you up!!! Vomit you out. That mental image has always stuck in my mind since I was in Jr High. Michael said God would rather you be cold than riding the fence. There were so many praise songs we sang about this very verse and I believe this was one of the things he really wanted us to hammer into our hearts.
I am going to make a confession. I haven’t spoken to Michael in some time. I saw him not too long ago at Christmas at New Chapel Hill. And yes he was the same Michael Smith that I will always remember. And you know what… he remembered me too. I haven’t been the best Christian or necessarily been doing what I should be doing since I last saw Michael Smith. But through his death and funeral I have found a new awakening for the Lord. And I know Michael wouldn’t have it any other way.
Comment by Emily Housley on October 29, 2010 at 11:05 am
The first time I heard of Michael Smith was from my oldest daughter, Toni. She was trying to get to school early to make it to a FCS (Fellow Christian Student) meeting at WMHS before class started. How odd! She is NEVER early for anything; she believes in being fashionably late. She mentioned a young man named Michael Smith, who was leading FCS, and she wanted to be there to listen to him. I prayed for this young man to stay on fire for our Lord since he had made such an impression on my daughter who is a Christian. She needed all the godly influence she can get. A few years later the name Michael Smith came up again. He was the youth minister at NCH where my youngest daughter Stacy had started going, even though I was still going to another church in Monroe. He was instrumental in leading Stacy to where she is now with her walk with the Lord. Finally I had the privilege to meet and know Michael when I joined NCH and started working with him in the Youth group. His humor, enthusiasm, and love for the Lord were so contagious. He had a gift to connect with the youth and lead them to Jesus. His emphasis in having a personal relationship with the Lord always stuck in my mind. Yes, Michael, you were a man after God’s own heart as you were after the rest of us. It is an honor to be able to see the fruits of your labor by the numerous young people serving our Lord in so many areas now and in leadership roles. I thank our Heavenly Father for blessing me with your life here on earth by living your life in obedience to our Lord Jesus Christ. Well done, good and faithful servant! Until we meet again. May God bless you, Kim, Hannah and the family through the coming difficult days. Love you!
Comment by Jenice Conville on October 30, 2010 at 5:36 pm
Michael Smith, Where do I start?
One Sunday morning in an adult Sunday School class at New Chapel Hill in West Monroe, LA. I remember looking around the room & saying: “Is this it? Is this what church is all about? I see Jesus’ picture on the wall, I hear them talking about Jesus, but I don’t KNOW Jesus! Lord, If this is what being a Christian is all about. . . I don’t want any part of it. BUT, if it’s NOT. . . please, show me!!!” That was 1987.
The Lord started working in my life & in the life of my family. We got invited to a Lay Renewal & realized real quick that there was alot we were missing. Then in 1989 along came Michael Smith and my life would NEVER be the same. Michael came in view of a call to full time youth ministry at NCH. He & Mission Possible (his skit team) were going to lead a lock-in at the church and give the students & their parents an opportunity to meet him. At the end of the skits (some hillarious & some serious) Michael asked the kids (so I thought) to get on their knees. He said, ‘I want adults on their knees too!’ I had never been asked to do that before. When we got home I told AnnaMargaret; “He’s the one we want!”
Michael came to NCH when he was only 18 years old. One of his favorite verses was Colossians 2:8. “Don’t let others spoil your faith & joy with their philosophies, their wrong & shallow answers built on men’s thoughts & ideas instead of on what Christ has said.” That verse had a major impact on my life. There were many things Michael taught me. I remember asking my wife; “He keeps talking about a ‘Quiet Time’. What is that?” Michael taught us about having a Quiet Time and even provided the Bible materials to do it. Michael also taught me the value of knowing God’s Word and how to experience it. I had already been watching God work in his life, how he depended upon God for His guidance and direction each day. There were many times he would say how God had woke him up early and changed his Wednesday night message that morning.
Now, looking back over the years, I cannot believe he took us so many places. Some I don’t even remember going to. HA! He introduced me to contemporary Christian music. We went to Six Flags in Dallas, Texas where every Christian artist you could think of was performing. From Michael W. Smith to P.O.D. WOW I was blown away & wondered why isn’t this kind of music on the radio in Monroe-West Monroe, LA? The rest is history. God placed it on my heart to pray for a radio station that would play Christian music. I shared this with Michael and over the next 5 years I would share weekly with Michael (and my family) how God was leading me in this adventure. Boy, how I DID enjoy those Wednesday night meetings with Michael before the Youth services began. In 1995 we went on the air with KHLL “The Hill” 100.9fm radio station! http://www.hillradion.com That was 15 years ago. How fast time flies!
I do not mind saying that this young 18 year old taught me more about God, Jesus, living the Christian life, and having fun doing it than ALL the preachers I’ve known put together! That’s not to say that any of the preachers were bad. It’s just that Michael was SPECIAL! He was God’s mentor in my life at the that time and still is today. Looking around at all the folks at his Home Going Service, I saw Michael. . . still there in each of their lives. Doctors, missionaries, Youth pastors, preachers, Chick-fil-a owners, Christian moms & dads, school teachers, coaches, principals, business owners, bankers and lastly a Christian radion station owner. What an IMPACT this young man has had on so many lives!!!!!
Well, I could go on & on. I think of every church Michael has been to since NCH days and I see them all paying tribute to him. His life lives through each of us today and will live through our children and grandchildren. Just like Jesus said for us to do: “to go and make disciples.” And Michael did. Just like Jesus.
God bless . . . We will see him again . . . and that’s for sure!!!
Dan Gilliland “Mr. Dan” http://www.hillradio.com
Comment by Dan Gilliland on November 1, 2010 at 1:21 pm
Michael Smith, Where do I start?
One Sunday morning in an adult Sunday School class at New Chapel Hill in West Monroe, LA. I remember looking around the room & saying: “Is this it? Is this what church is all about? I see Jesus’ picture on the wall, I hear them talking about Jesus, but I don’t KNOW Jesus? Lord, if this is what being a Christian is all about. . . I don’t want any part of it. BUT, if it’s NOT. . .please show me!!!” That was 1987.
The Lord started working in my life & in the life of my family. We got invited to a Lay Renewal & realized real quick that there was alot we were missing. Then in 1989 along came Michael Smith & my life would NEVER be the same. Michael came in view of a call to full time youth ministry at NCH. He & Mission Possible(his skit team) were going to lead a lock-in at the church and give the students and their parents an opportunity to meet Michael. At the end of the skits (some hillarious & some serious) he asked the kids (I thought) to get on their knees. He said, “I want the adults on their knees too!” I had never been asked to do that before. When we got home, I told AnnaMargaret, “He’s the one we want!”
Michael came to NCH when he was only 18 years old. One of his favorite verses was Colossians 2:8 “Don’t let others spoil your faith & joy with their philosophies, their wrong & shallow answers built on men’s thoughts & ideas instead of on what Christ has said.” That verse had a major impact on my life. There were many things Michael taught me. I remember asking my wife “He keeps talking about having a Quiet Time. What is that?” Michael taught us about having a Quiet Time and even provided the Bible materials to do it. Michael also taught me the value of knowing God’s Word and how to experience it. I had already been watching God work in his life, how he dependd upon God for his guidance and direction each day. There were many times he would say how God had woke him up early and changed his Wednesday night message that morning.
Now, looking back over the years, I cannot believe he took us to so many places. Some I do not even remember going to. HA! He introduced me to contemporary Christian music. We went to Six Flags in Dallas, Texas where every Christian artist you could think of was performing. From Michael W. Smith to P.O.D. WOW! I was blown away and wondered why isn’t this kind of music on the radio in Monroe – WestMonroe, LA? The rest is history. God placed it on my heart to pray for a radio station that would play Christian music. I shared this with Michael and over the next 5 years I would share weekly with Michael (and my family) how God was leading me in this adventure. Boy, how I DID enjoy those Wednesday nights meeting with Michael before Youth Services began. In 1995 we went on the air with KHLL, “The Hill” 100.9fm radio station! That was 15 years ago. How fast time flies.
I do not mind saying that this young 18 year old taught me more about God, Jesus, living the Christian life, and having fun doing it than ALL the preachers I’ve known put together! That is not to say any of the preachers were bad. It’s just that Michael was SPECIAL! He was God’s mentor in my life at that time and still is today. Looking around at all the folks at his Home Going Service, I saw Michael. . . still there in each of their lives. Doctors, missionaries, youth pastors, preachers, Chick-fil-a owners, Christian Moms & Dads, school teachers, coaches, principals, business owners, bankers, and YES a Christian radio station owner. What an IMPACT this young man has had on so many lives!!!!!
Well, I could go on & on. I think of every church Michael has been to since NCH days and I see them all paying tribute to him. His life lives through each of us today and will live through our children and grandchildren. Just like Jesus said for us to do: “to go and make disciples”. And Michael did. Just like Jesus.
God bless . . . We will see him again . . . and that’s for sure!!!!!
Dan Gilliland “Mr. Dan” 11-01-10
Comment by Dan Gilliland on November 1, 2010 at 5:40 pm
So its taken me a long time to type this up, every time I started I could never finish. Ive been thinking a lot about what I wanted to say about Michael and so many things come to mind.
One of the things I was able to share with Michael and not very many people did was seeing him coach his beautiful daughter in tball. Myself and one other girl actually enjoyed getting up early saturday mornings to go sit in the cold and watch them play. They were some of the best saturday mornings I have ever had and they were the moments that I really realized his love for Hannah. After every game he would come up to Justine and I and say “my girls!” and give us some of the greatest hugs we have ever gotten.
Those hugs…there was just something about those hugs of his, I dont even like hugs that much but no one ever turned one of michaels hugs down, they were just welcoming and could turn your entire day around without him even knowing it. I loved those hugs and miss my weekly hugs from him.
Somewhere along the road of him being my youth pastor for 3 years he developed a new nickname for me…”RayRay”…I remember the first time he said it, I was walking out of my church (not saying bye to him) and I hear someone yelling “RayRay! Girl whatchu doin? Leaving here and not saying bye who do you think you are?!” and from then on I was RayRay to not only him but now the entire Smith family and the rest of my church. Now hearing that nickname brings tears to my eyes along with the many memories that come with them.
Michael did so much for my grade. We first were very close with Kim, she was our sunday school teacher and got to know a couple of us pretty well, he called us “her girls” for a while, and anything we needed he would get done for us, no doubt. He was the first godly guy that i really knew and could look up to. I trusted him with a lot, he was always there to ask how i was doing and knew the truth behind my usual answer “Im doing alright.” Michael was a perfect example of how to live a Christian life, he was a true disciple of Christ, putting God first in all things. When ever we had a problem he would ALWAYS say pray about it. I dont think I would still have much of my faith without Michael Smith, he taught me a lot of what I know today, he showed me that I needed to be a leader for Christ, his sermons have brought me so far, and his dedication to Christ has taught me more than anyone has taught me and given me a great example of how to live my life.
God bringing the Smith family to fbcc was one of the greatest things God has done in my life. They have been a family that I could count on to bring me laughter and advice in the hardest of times. Without Michael and Kim my walk would be so different. They have made a footprint on my heart that will never leave.
Michael Smith, thank you so much for your true dedication to Christ. Thank you for being there for me for the past 3 years, thank you for the big hugs, thank you for the hilarious sayings, thank you for my nickname, thank you for putting 3 of the most inspiring ladies as my sunday school teachers (Stormy Shelly and Kim), thank you for teaching the epic ministry students all you knew, thank you Michael.
Ill listen to some TobyMac for you!
Love you and see you again one day.
you fought a darn good fight.
Comment by Rachel Curry on November 7, 2010 at 11:39 pm
I did not know Michael, but had the blessing of knowing his wife, Kim, and daughter, Hannah, while they were at FBCC. My son, Landry, was in Pre-K at SSA with Hannah. They were dear friends. What a sweet family! My heart breaks for you, but I know that God heals. My family’s prayers are being sent up for you. Amber Wood
Comment by Amber Wood on November 8, 2010 at 9:54 am
Wish I could pick up the phone and tell you this. My heart smiled yesterday while in the car with the kids. Drew (5) started singing along with 100.9 (The Hill) “I will follow YOU.” I am thankful that you were willing to listen to God along with God using Mr Dan to bring Contemporary Christian music to North LA! Even t…hough you are no longer here with us, God is still using your love of Christian music to impact North LA for Jesus! I love you and miss you dearly!
Comment by Wendy Fretwell Coleman on November 20, 2010 at 7:08 pm
I actually met and spent time with Michael and Kim briefly in person in Ohio back in November 2003, and have never forgotten it. From the other comments, that was typical of the impact he had on people – a positive influence for the lord on me and my family regardless of the amount of time spent. Thanks so much for posting the homegoing service and it helps provide a “spiritual impact and legacy” goal to aim for.
Comment by Scott Brown on November 24, 2010 at 7:57 am
Obviously, I hold Michael in a very high regard in my life. Michael and Kim have been a huge blessing in my life. Hannah could never have asked for more perfect parents. She is a blessed child and so lucky to have spent 7 wonderful and amazing years with such a perfect father. My heart breaks that her and Kim do not have more time with him but I know he is forever looking down and loving the two of you. I have a very embedded picture of Michael in my mind – wheelchair races down the hallways of the hospital, LSU games in the hospital room, and the love he had for Hannah from day one. Michael, we will always remember and love you. Thank you for your impact on all of our lives.
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